Saturday 3rd April 2021 – A cool reception
For a week we have been able to meet families and friends in our gardens, subject to the “rule of six”, or up to two households. The first few days of lockdown relaxation were warm and sunny, perfect for socially distanced gatherings that extended into the evening sunshine. Unfortunately, my family reunions had been pre-planned around various work and school commitments, and we missed this brief spell of summer. This won’t stop us making the most of our the relaxed social distancing rules to get together with all branches of the family outdoors over the next few days.

Today we were joined by my sons and their wives/partners . We huddled around the smoking firepit, sheltered from a cold northerly wind by a makeshift windbreak constructed from a pair of secondary glazing window panels that have been hanging around in the garden for years. I knew that they would come in handy one day. To be honest the event wasn’t too hypothermal. The windbreak was effective, and, thanks to us all checking the weather forecast, we were all wrapped in several layers of clothing. After a lunch of hand-warming bowls of hot pasta we happily chatted for a few hours before the lure of central heating persuaded us all that it was time to retire to our respective homes.
Monday 5th April 2021 – Greeting Granddaughters
Easter Monday, and we travelled to Leeds to see my stepdaughter and family, seeing granddaughters for the first time in months. It was difficult to resist hugs, but they came running out, elbows out for what has become the covid-safe greeting of lightly-touched elbows. Me and my eldest granddaughter are both in the Scout movement, and we tapped left elbows, the safe version of the traditional Scouting left-hand shake. The forecast of an “arctic blast” proved to be over-dramatic, and although we had dog-walked in snow earlier, the sun shone onto the sheltered patio of their home, nestled in a wooded valley. As darkness fell, so did the temperature, and we threw caution to the wind, and we briefly retired to the heated summer-house, but with doors wide open, before we headed back south.
Wednesday 7th April 2021 – Home testing
We can now order a pack of lateral flow home test-kits for Covid, and ours were delivered today. Home testing is more convenient than visiting the walk-centre in Leicester, where I have been a regular, popping in whenever I have been to the office. Gagging in the privacy of one’s bathroom is also preferable. The problem will be remembering to test regularly at home. I pass the walk-in centre between car park and office, or cycle past it on my way in, and so get a visual reminder to pop in for a test. Without such a reminder I’m not sure that I’ll remember to test regularly at home.
Friday 9th April 2021 – back to Yorkshire
Back up to Yorkshire today for a visit to my sister. The weather was cold but sunny, and we moved the table around the garden chasing the sunshine as shadows lengthened in the late afternoon. A bracing dog walked warmed us up after sitting for a couple of hours in the garden, just as it had done during the Leeds visit, but but we sat on the patio for only a a few minutes after the walk before it became uncomfortably cold. We had the car heater on full blast to warm up again as we drove back south in the evening.
Saturday 10th April 2021 – The Pub is open!
At last pubs have opened. Well, some of them. With service restricted to outdoors, many pubs do not have enough outdoor space to seat sufficient socially distanced customers to make the operational financially viable, particularly with the vagaries of the British springtime weather. The two pubs closest to us are in this situation, and will remain closed until indoor hospitality is, hopefully, allowed next month. Nevertheless, this was a Covid-Relaxation Milestone to be celebrated, and so four of us walked nearly two miles along field footpaths to the nearest village that had a pub that was open. The taste of the first pint of freshly poured draught ale for several months, or, in the case of The Ladies, fruity gins not normally available at home, made the journey worth it. It was a very contented group that wandered back home across the fields as the sun set.
Sunday 11th April 2021 – More granddaughter greetings
The final of our planned outdoor family gatherings, a visit to us by our other granddaughters and family, travelling up from Hampshire. Once again, as when my son and daughter-in-law visited a week ago, we sat around the fire pit, but just as lunch was served, it began to snow, small pellets of ice hissing onto the burning embers and diluting the wine, as hoods were raised and scarves wrapped around necks. There was only one way to react – with peels of laughter as we continued with our meal and snow collected on arms and shoulders. The shower was fortunately brief, and once again a dog walk in sunshine warmed us up. A very cold evening, with a bitter wind, and we stretched (well, broke…) the rules to settle, suitably spaced out, in a back room of our home, with double patio doors wide open.
I have heard admissions of rule-breaking by friends and colleagues who have travelled some distance to see family, or had family travelling to them, with plans of a few outdoor hours together and a couple of shared meals to make up for the missed months of face-to-face contact and conversation. It would be hypocritical of me to criticise.
Monday 12th April 2021 – Cutting remarks
I have enthused about relaxed-lockdown family get togethers. I have enthused about the relaxed- lockdown visits to the pub. Today there was a relaxed-lockdown event of even more significance to many. From today hairdressers have once again been welcoming clients, after opening post-lockdown-1 and then closing again. The Ladies have been referring to the salon-opening-date for weeks, and indeed many had booked an appointment well in advance of lockdown-relaxation.

Tuesday 13th April 2021 – The Zooms Arms remains popular
Despite pubs being open, we continue with our weekly Zoom pub sessions. Drinking, or indeed dining, is restricted to outdoor areas, which is fine for a lunchtime pint, but not for the evening, when, with the clear skies and northerly wind that we have been experiencing for weeks, the temperature drops significantly. Our nearest local pub is not big enough to have significant numbers of socially distanced outdoor customers, and there are those in our party who grumble at the half mile short walk home from this pub, let alone the 1.5 mile stroll each way across the fields to the nearest pub that has sufficient outdoor space to make opening to customers worthwhile. We hope to resume visits to our local pub following it’s planned re-opening in May.
Friday 16th April 2021 – Law breakers (again)
Once again, we have been visited by friends on a mild sunny afternoon, and once again the weather deteriorated just as an al-fresco evening meal was served, not just turning cold, but distinctly damp. We retired to a well-ventilated kitchen. After all, we have all now been vaccinated, tested, and re-tested. And we have, very occasionally, shared a car with the other vaccinated and tested, households, for a short journey. We know that we are breaching the rules again, but there is no doubt that there are circumstances where the risk of Covid transmission is greater even if rules are being followed to the letter.
Wednesday 21st April 2021 – Following instructions
I am now regularly testing using Covid lateral flow test kits at home, testing before and after working in Leicester or before I meet up with friends. The first time I carefully followed the instructions and got a negative result. The second time I merely glanced at the instructions as a reminder. It was only during the third test that I realised that the instructions continued after the testing procedure to state that all results, positive or negative, should be reported to the NHS. I suppose this could be described as a Man-Look at the instructions. I duly submitted the negative result online and received a text shortly afterwards to notify me that the results were in, and I would be pleased to know that I was negative.
Tuesday 27th April 2021 – A real Ale should be served warm
We are, on the whole, still avoiding pubs. There are, conveniently, six of us who, for many years, have walked to the local pub every Tuesday, and so we can now meet in a pub garden on a Tuesday evening, still following the “rule of six” – no more than six people, each 2m apart, gathering together. But instead we continue to Zoom. This is not an aversity to risk, but weather avoidance. We are of an age when even good ale fails to compensate for a cold breeze blowing between the tankards. Anyway, a good ale should never be served cold. We will continue to visit the Zoom Arms for the time being.