Saturday 7th November 2020 – Farewell before Lockdown Two

Day Three of Lockdown Two. This one feels very different from Lockdown One. For a start, we had more notice, five days instead of five hours, more time to prepare, to say our “Au Revoirs”, our farewells for the time being.
Each of my sons paid a visit over the weekend, not knowing when we might meet again, despite each being relatively local. My youngest son needs to return a desk to IKEA and had five days’ notice to do so. It was good to see the boys and partners. It is time to resurrect the weekly Zoom Family Gatherings.
My final (for now) church service on Sunday concluded with the Northumbrian Blessing, a modern Celtic sung blessing which finishes with the words “May He bring you home rejoicing once again into our doors”, a sort of spiritual version of “We’ll Meet Again”, the wartime song favoured by The Queen during Lockdown One. Obviously, we didn’t sing the blessing – still no singing allowed in churches. Back to Zoom church services from this Sunday.
A final Tuesday night farewell “Dog Walk” to the local pub, where we helped the landlady to dispose of the beer that otherwise would be sitting in the cellar going flat for four weeks, and consequently we had a particularly jovial farewell session. Next Tuesday The Zoom Arms will, reopen, for our weekly virtual pub get together.
A final farewell get together with close friends and neighbours on Wednesday evening, four of us (and two dogs) from our two households socially distanced around a firepit in their garden, laughing and chatting, consuming various beverages of choice, accompanied by hot dogs and baked apples. It was a clear night of stars and moonshine, an owl hooted, and a shooting star streaked overhead. There are some social experiences that Zooming cannot replace.
During Lockdown One we missed garden centres and builders’ merchants (the latter for wood offcuts for our wood burner – I’m not a builder) but both remain open during Lockdown Two, as is WH Smiths – apparently, with schools and Universities open, stationary is now essential.
Let us all hope that this relaxed version of Lockdown is effective (however the effectiveness is measured), and that Boris is spending the time writing an effective post-Lockdown strategy.
Monday 16th November 2020 – A different sort of lockdown
This lockdown is certainly different to the last one. I have now done my first supermarket trip during Lockdown 2, and the store was quiet, no queues. This may have been because I was shopping on a midweek afternoon – it may be different on a Saturday morning, but I recall that queuing was unavoidable at any time during the first lockdown, and careful timing of visits merely minimised the waiting times.
We have visited the vet, who is now happily providing routine vaccinations. Owners are allowed into the consultation room, whereas during lockdown1 the vet came out to the car park and took away the pet. The waiting room is still redundant – on arrival an owner, without pet, follows the one-way system to reception to collect a pager, before returning to the car park. A bleep summons owner and pet back inside for a fully masked consultation. Well, obviously the pet isn’t masked.
Covid testing is much more of a feature during this lockdown, but despite of this we know of only two people in our extensive circles of friends and colleagues who have tested positive for Covid-19. What is more noticeable is the number of people self-isolating because they have been informed that they have been in contact with a Covid-positive case.
We have two dog walking friends who are nurses, at two different hospitals, and each reports staff shortages because of self-isolation. My niece is a Junior Doctor at another hospital, and she also reported staffing problems caused by colleagues of various medical professions self-isolating. One of the nurses told us of an elderly lady admitted for a planned operation, and, as is the case for all admissions, she self-isolated for 14 days in advance, and was tested on arrival. She was Covid-positive, despite having had no contact with the outside world for two weeks, other than her daughter dropping bags of shopping at her door and leaving promptly. In a real world, self-isolation is not a guarantee to prevent infection.
We have had jobs delayed at home because the tradesmen were affected by self-isolation. In one case the wife of our plumber tested positive the day before he was due to visit us, one of the two people we know who have tested positive, and the installation of a new gate has been delayed because our fencing contractor has two of his “lads” self-isolating.
Working last night, and at 10.30pm I was called out because of late night “building work”. Two workmen, one of the first floor, one on the ground floor, were using power tools in an empty house, with windows wide open. I knocked the door at the first quiet opportunity, and one of the workmen opened the door for a chat. The rented house was being renovated between lets, but, he said, only one contractor was allowed to work at a time, in the interests of social distancing, hence longer working hours were unavoidable. Maybe this was true, or maybe I should give him 9/10 for quick thinking. They did stop using power tools on my request.
Wednesday 18th November – Keeping my distance
I meet up with one of the dog-walking nurses who had just finished a night shift. To her dismay she had been told that instead of working on her usual ward, she was to go to another hospital to provide cover on a Covid ward. She was not happy, explaining that a previous risk assessment has recommended non-Covid contact work because she has asthma. She was told that the only other nurses available were BAME (Black, Asian and Minority Ethnic), who are deemed to be at greater risk.
As we walked I kept my distance from her even more than usual, but she reassured me, telling about how procedures have developed since the pandemic first reached the UK. Full PPE is readily available, with strict rules on removing individual items when leaving the ward, thoroughly handwashing after each item. All equipment is available where it is needed, none needing to be moved, unlike when hospitals were dealing with the first Covid admissions. All Covid-safe procedures have become second nature. I still kept my distance.
Sadly, a good friend of mine, in his early 90’s, is reaching the end of his life in a care home, not Covid related. He moved into the home during lockdown 1, and we have not been able to visit him, as we did his wife when she was in the same home, until she passed away last year. His son has been able to visit, no doubt under strict social distancing arrangements, but not his daughter. His son has now been allowed “compassionate visits”, presumably being permitted to be closer. When I lost each of my parents, we siblings were able to support each other. My friend’s son has had to support his Dad on his own. Covid is cruel under these circumstances.
Friday November 20th -Is this “Lockdown Lite”?
On a cold wet day I drove to work, rather than cycled, today. Regular commuters have reported normal traffic despite Lockdown 2, but in fact traffic this morning was light, Roads were not deserted, as was the case during the first full-on lockdown. Similarly, at lunchtime in the City Centre the streets were not busy, but were certainly not deserted. In lockdown 1, during a rare visit to the City, I walked across the centre, and maybe saw 20 people. Yesterday I probably saw 200 in a short walk from the office, despite heavy rain. Unlike last time our office is open, albeit for only 2 people, not the usual ten, and other offices in the city will be open too.
During lockdown 1 very few shops were open. Yesterday Marks and Spencer, Boots, WH Smith, and Poundland, in fact any shop that has at least one shelf of “essential” goods were trading as usual. At least one computer games shop was open, albeit for click and collect only. I estimated that 90% of people walking around the streets were wearing masks or face coverings, despite this not being mandatory outside of shops. Masks were unusual in lockdown 1.
On my way home I took advantage of a click-and-collect option to collect a pre-purchased item from Curry’s electrical store in a local retail park. It was the only shop “open”, at least in this part of the retail park, and only for click-and-collect. No customers could enter the store. The procedure wasn’t as smooth as expected. An e-mail had advised that my item was ready, with an “I am Here” link to be selected on arrival. Using my phone, the link took me to a form requiring, amongst other things, my order number from a separate e-mail. The format was such that copy-and-paste only worked for part of the order number, and I had to remember part of the number, not good at my age. It took three attempts to notify of my arrival, and I was told that I was third in the queue. After 10 minutes a lady emerged identified my car from information provided, and held a package up to my open passenger window. “Is this correct?” she asked. How am I supposed to know from two meters away on a dark night? I assured her that it looked to be the right size, and was able to reach out and take the box from her. It was the correct item.
Sunday 22nd November 2020 – Selling the vaccination
After our church Zoom service, a few of us chatted. Someone reported that her granddaughter, of around 30, has 400 Facebook friends, the majority of whom have decided that they will not accept the vaccine if it is offered – in their opinion the hassle will not be worth the potential benefit. Presumably being vaccinated is not “Cool”. Also amongst our gathering was a young lady in her mid-twenties. She has fewer Facebook friends, but all propose to accept the vaccine. She has just completed a Biology degree, and her friends are nearly all scientists.
The Governments is going to have to use all of its Social Media skills to sell a vaccination programme to those who don’t watch the serious-but-stodgy briefings by scientists and politicians, and who never watch the BBC and ITV news, or read newspapers, relying on Facebook or similar for their news. A section of sceptical anarchists in normal society is healthy, but this time they need to be persuaded to get on board with the rest of us on board.
Wednesday 25th November – An uncertain future
Instead of looking forward to being released from Lockdown 2 next week as we hoped, and planning the next dog walking trip to the pub, we are all sitting nervously awaiting a decision on which Tier, and associated restrictions, that we will all be released into. My prediction is that my home Authority of Blaby will be promoted (or demoted?) from Tier 1 to higher risk Tier 2, and my work Authority, Leicester, will be promoted from Tier 2 to 3. Pessimistic regional BBC TV has suggested that the whole County of Leicestershire could be high risk Tier 3. If we, in Blaby, are in Tier 2, visits to the pub will be restricted to outdoor tables on frosty nights, because there are multiple households in our group, all snuggling into ski jackets, gloved hands cupped around our pints. Drinks can only be served with food, and so at least we can choose a hot mandatory “substantial” meal, that must accompany our ales. If we end up in Tier 3 such gatherings must be in a public space, and so we must find a pub that serves take-away food and beer, and then huddle together on the dark-but-public slopes of Croft Hill to consume it. I think that it is likely that The Zoom Arms, our virtual pub, will remain open on a Tuesday night for some weeks yet.
At least we can now make our plans for Christmas. Whatever Tier that we are in, shops can remain open, and we can still experience the seasonal joy of Christmas Shopping. Oh Great. As for Christmas itself, we can mix with a total of two other households during the days around Christmas Day. Boris explained that this was to allow us all to celebrate with “someone special”, which is a shame, because we had planned to invite the Mother-In Law.
I actually get on very well with my widowed Mother-in-Law, who for many years has helped me to empty a bottle of red wine with Sunday Lunch every week. During Lockdown 2 she has found each Sunday to be particularly stressful, having to decide whether or not to visit us for lunch, technically against the rules as we are not in the same Social Bubble. On the first Sunday she chose to stay safely at home, and we delivered food and wine, but this clearly did not replace the banter and stories of a normal Sunday. She still recalls the long weeks without visiting or visitors, apart from doorstep distanced chats, during Lockdown 1. She did not cope well with this semi-isolation. By Sunday 2 of Lockdown 2 she decided that the mental benefits from couple of hours of relaxed chatting and laughing (and shared wine) easily compensated for the additional risk of contracting Covid, and we take as many precautions as we can to minimise that risk.
Mum-in-Law chooses to be “socially bubbled” with her contemporary gentleman friend Alan, rather than with us, and who can blame her? The trouble is that Alan is very risk averse, and very strict, allowing himself just a couple of visits to Mum-in-Law each week, and cross examining her about what potentially risky activities she may have been undertaking over the previous few days, and the precautions that she has taken. We are under very strict instructions that Sunday Lunch visits must not be mentioned to Alan. Neither of them reads this blog. I hope.